Our daughter had to be at the airport before 6 a.m. for a flight. She’s going to Bozeman MT with fellow mom/mother in law Jennifer for a girls weekend together. I’m happy for them. And I’m living vicariously through them.
I’m not incapable of long distance travel. But between meds and medical appliances the actual taking of a trip can be more onerous than the enjoyment thereof. So, we have consciously limited how much/little we travel for the past couple years and that may be the case for the longterm future.
If you have lived your life with a little bit of gusto, by the time you get to our age it mightn’t be too much of a loss to start not doing some things. I’ve traveled more than I wanted in my life. While I do love travel, I never wanted to be away from Peggy as much as life has asked — but the side result is that there are a lot of places that I have been. So hearing that Katy was going to Bozeman was for me kind of like a return to a place I remember. Oh, sure, things have changed there in the years since I last set foot there. And I didn’t visit all that many times: a few pleasure trip motel nights, a few truck deliveries, several restaurants, a bad snowstorm or two. Still,
Memories are wonderful things. In my life I’ve never spent a lot of time reflecting on my childhood, or things I’ve done, but as I get older I admit to finding myself remembering a lot more about places I’ve been. Maybe just because I feel unwilling to make those same journeys again. I’m quite content to visit via the pages of memory rather than going there.
Kathryn has become good friends with her daughter’s husband’s mother. She and Jennifer share a lot and they are both gregarious. Truth be told I don’t know whose genes Katy received because neither Peg nor I are anywhere near as sociable as she is. But we are happy for her, and perhaps one of our only regrets in life is that she didn’t get to enjoy a sibling or two because at this time in life she seems to have missed that part of her growing up. It makes me sad but circumstances were such that it didn’t happen and we have to be content about that. However, the fact that she’s getting along so well with the in-laws (as well as a good complement of friends here at home) give us great happiness.
We don’t expect momentary updates — though she’s one to post her selfies like so many others. But I’m sure after she returns we’ll be regaled with tales of all the fun things they did. She loves telling stories; and we love listening to them. She IS enthusiastic!
The trip will only last a few days. Saturday she’ll be back home and happy to see her hubby. A little break is good. While she’s out there, we’re at the trailer soaking in the forest. Life is good right now.
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